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The best comfort is being free to do whatever the hell you want 😊💖.

Some people recover sooner, but did they finish griefing or they just ignored the pain? Hid it away?

Is there a kind of griefing process for every sorrow?

Not just death of loved ones, but all kinds of disappointment, like death of desires, dreams, goals, illusions?

Some can be grieved more quickly than others.

Truth is more valuable than fantasy, even when harsh.

Fantasy is coping. Truth is living.

Noone ever "makes" anyone feel anything.

Apologising for "not meaning to make you feel bad", isn't an apology about anything, since you can't make someone feel something.

Apologise for real actions or inactions related to their complaint/grievance.

If your heart, mind, and body are in one piece right now, you're doing pretty well. High five!🖐️

Go fail and learn some more :)! ❤️

If you're dumb once, you don't need to be dumb again (in that particular type of problem or issue).

Some people take a couple of lessons.

But the key is that it's OK to mess up, as long as you learn (and as long as its not fatal or debilitating).

Invest your time like you invest money:

Ignore the penny stocks, junk ICOs/coins. Focus on things/activities/relationships with real returns.

If you can't find what inspires or excites you, expand your circle.

If you're not fully satisfied, good.
Hunger is a good thing.

If you're always "full" (satisfied) in life, you've just become mentally and physically lazy.

You can't learn and expand more, unless you always have some kind of hunger to grow.

Home is being who you are truly meant to be.

Dissatisfaction leads to growth.

Having high standards mean you achieve more, you try harder. Aspire.

I think there's only these variations of work within society:

Organising/Leading
Design/Invent
Comforting/Inspiring
Teaching
Manually producing/labouring

There is only one true cure for malaise:

Sauna/steamroom, with healthy dose of introspection 😊

People could benefit from more grit and more focus 🔥

You either want something/someone or you don't.

No wishy-washy, half-way BS.

Part of being adult is about working out what you want or need ASAP.

No BS from either side.

It's a wonder how any body can be with any body anymore in this modern malaise, where basically everyone is having issues.

Only love and mutual support helps keep people together and strong. But many modern people are too lazy and defeatist to do that.

People who bullshit others are just wasting their own time along with someone else's

I hate the phrase "don't want to catch feelings".

Everyone who says that sounds like a giant douchebag.

Feeling is what humans do.

Non-feeling = Robot

Everyone in your life is just a ship in passing
Sometimes you sail together
Sometimes you sail apart
Sometimes you cross paths again

Pain or joy, or any emotion, is just a message. It's expression of how you feel about what you thought about or experienced.

Most people don't even understand how they function, as a human.

They would rather ignore or wallow in pain, than interpret it.

My heart grows cold
When you've let go
Just empty places
Where feelings used to dance

The joy of the school of hard knocks is, if you really learn from your mistakes, you look forward to never going through that same shit again.

It's not lurking around the corner like it could be for some life noobs.

Wise up faster. 🧠
Fight harder. 🥊

Say what you mean 🗯️
Believe in what you do 💗

With content this bad, noone wants to pay to use this man. Step it up!

You just pay them. This is so dumb

Naw.

Everytime he criticises someone online, he puts on a new sock.

#WeAreAllNullCSocks

Anyone can sprint a short distance.

Not everyone will run a whole marathon.

#effort #persistence #consistency #love

A relationship is kinda like being in a marathon you didn't sign up for.

You just started running for fun, and then you notice, "oh shit, this is actually a marathon?"

Some people give up right there.
Others tough it out. It takes consistent effort!

Love is a feeling of deep comfort.

Time moves slower when I'm in nature.

I remember to breathe again.